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If Your Relationship Feels Boring, That Doesn’t Mean It’s Not Working

If Your Relationship Feels Boring, That Doesn’t Mean It’s Not Working

Kirstie Taylor
There’s one not-so-sexy fact about relationships that no one seems to talk about: eventually, it’s bound to get boring. If you think about it, you’ll inevitably feel comfortable with someone...
“Who wears the pants?” Breaking gender roles in same-sex relationships

“Who wears the pants?” Breaking gender roles in same-sex relationships

João Santos Costa
The embodiment of gender roles in same-sex couples can be traced back to the age-old idea that a relationship should be between a man and a woman. But in a world where words like "man" and "woman" are giving way to fluidity, how does this polarization of what's expected from certain genders extend to our relationships?
Dating inside the closet. Is love an open door?

Dating inside the closet. Is love an open door?

João Santos Costa
So, are you dating inside the closet? Has your partner not come out yet? Maybe they're totally in, maybe they're only there partially. Should you do anything? Can you do...
Getting Married During a Pandemic: we tied the knot ourselves

Getting Married During a Pandemic: we tied the knot ourselves

Zanny Merullo Steffgen
My husband and I decided to tie the knot in August of 2020, when group meet-ups were restricted and a partial lockdown was enforced due to COVID-19. Getting married during...
Bridging a Cultural Distance

Bridging a Cultural Distance

Zanny Merullo Steffgen
Because my now husband is German and I am American, we met at a cultural distance. After living in a country that was foreign to us both, then visiting Germany...
To Every Touch, There is a Meaning:

To Every Touch, There is a Meaning:

Helena João
Our personal codes make sending touches more fun and useful Me and my boyfriend, Francisco, have been Bonditos since July 2019. When we bought our Bond Touch bracelets - being...
I came out 10 years ago. What challenges will we face in the next 10?

I came out 10 years ago. What challenges will we face in the next 10?

João Santos Costa
In 2011, Harry Potter defeated the Dark Lord, Rebecca Black released “Friday” and for some reason, we were obsessed with an 8-bit cat shooting rainbows out of his butt (which...
My mom started online dating, and she doesn’t know how to text

My mom started online dating, and she doesn’t know how to text

Chris Middleton
Flirting over text with your potential online matches When my mom asked me to help her set up an online dating profile, I was surprisingly thrilled! Most people would think...
Radical Honesty: our recipe for a happier relationship

Radical Honesty: our recipe for a happier relationship

Gabrielle H
There’s no doubt that a couple that is honest about their sexuality often has a happier relationship. After all, incompatible sexualities make it hard for relationships to survive. But when...
Pride During COVID: the Queer Community asks itself if it stays inside or goes out?

Pride During COVID: the Queer Community asks itself if it stays inside or goes out?

Davis Walden
This past March, the United States passed its one-year anniversary with the coronavirus pandemic, mask regulations, and lockdown procedures. And while quarantining eliminated many aspects of social interaction, one of...
Looking for Queer Joy in an Unfriendly Space

Looking for Queer Joy in an Unfriendly Space

Mara Franzen
This story feels hardly unique among queer people who have had to make their way in unfriendly spaces. My college roommate and I attended a homophobic Christian institution, that would really rather us not be there.
Sometimes I Miss My Pre-Pandemic Relationship

Sometimes I Miss My Pre-Pandemic Relationship

Kirstie Taylor
My boyfriend and I made a decision that led to us moving in permanently after only dating for five months. I was sitting in his apartment when his dad called...