In a world that still isn’t always safe or welcoming for LGBTQIA+ people, the simple act of being there can make all the difference.
Whether it’s showing up for your queer best friend, supporting a trans sibling, or making a long-distance partner feel safe and celebrated—these small acts of connection and care matter deeply. And as we observe the International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia on May 17, it’s the perfect time to reflect on the role each of us plays in building a world where love and identity are respected—not feared.
Why Visibility and Support Matter
Members of the LGBTQIA+ community often face discrimination, erasure, and rejection in everyday life. For many, these challenges aren’t just about laws or media—they show up in their closest relationships.
So when someone feels seen, heard, and loved for exactly who they are? That’s healing. That’s powerful.
And you don’t need the perfect words. You just need to lead with empathy and remind them: I’m here.
5 Ways to Show Up with Love and Intention
1. Listen Without Judgment
Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can offer is your presence. Let your LGBTQIA+ loved ones share their stories without jumping in to fix or debate.
“Thank you for sharing that with me. I’m here for you.”
That single sentence can go a long way.
2. Celebrate Their Identity Loudly
Don’t just be quietly supportive—be vocal. Compliment their authenticity. Use the right name and pronouns. Cheer them on. Advocate for them when others don’t.
Visibility helps dismantle shame—and builds pride.
3. Offer Connection, Not Just Conversation
Support can be soft and simple:
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A check-in text after a hard day
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A queer-affirming meme
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Wearing your Pride pin year-round
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Sending a “thinking of you” touch through your Bond Touch bracelet
Small gestures say: I see you, I care, and you matter.
4.Learn Together
We’re all learning. Stay curious. Ask respectful questions. Invite conversations with your friends and family about gender, sexuality, and inclusion.
The more we know, the less harm we cause.
Being open about what you don’t know is part of true allyship.
5. Check In (Even When It’s Uncomfortable)
If someone you love seems off, don’t wait for the “right moment.” Say something. Even a short message like:
“Hey, I know this time of year can be heavy. I just wanted you to know I love you.”
…can break through isolation and remind someone they’re not alone.
A Reminder for May 17—and Every Day
The International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia isn’t just about awareness—it’s a reminder that we all have the power to make others feel safe, seen, and supported.
So send that text (or touch). Keep showing up. Keep learning. Keep speaking out.
💬 If You or Someone You Love Needs Support:
Here are a few safe and affirming resources to share:
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The Trevor Project (for LGBTQ+ youth): 1-866-488-7386 | thetrevorproject.org
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Trans Lifeline: 1-877-565-8860 | translifeline.org
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